Filtered list in table view

How can I pick a few options in a filer list in a table view but also Include any records that have not yet been set in the same view!

ie these records are still showing in the 'Empty' swim Lane in a Kaban veiw.

If not possible - I can add an extra choice of 'New" and set all records to default to 'New' if a choice has not been selected. But

in this case I would want to remove the empty swim lane from the Kanban. Prev suggions on fumr onhow to do this don't appear to work.